When my little girl clings...

Anna is so afraid of dogs and cats. So afraid.

Biking in the neighborhood sometimes becomes terrifying for her, when a dog seems to come out of no where. They come galloping to greet her with tongue hanging out the side of their mouth, panting a welcome; and her response is a scream of fear. She'll drop her bike and come racing back to me on foot to grab my legs while crying out "No, go home; mommy make him go!"

Cat sitting for our neighbor is also an adventure. Holding thirty pound Ben on one hip, while Anna clings to my pant leg, while I attempt to clean a litter box, fill the food dish and check the water bowls...sigh.
"Anna, let go of my leg! This is silly, I can't get around the house with you hanging on like this; go sit on the counter stool if you want to get away from the cats."

I have scoffed at her fear, trying to make it small, while brushing off her clinging.

Wait, am I ever afraid? Oh yes... And during that time I am so thankful to cling to something bigger then myself. Something solid. God.
 Christ on the cross and his covering my sins with his forgiving grace, allows me to come close to my Father and BE with him...clinging.

Isaiah 41:10
So do not fear, for I am with you;
    do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
    I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. 
 
Does she need to learn what to do during these times so she's not frozen with fear. Yes, of course, but she can only do that with my reassurance and guidance, shown to her in love. Impatience and scoffing only show her I find her fears unreasonable and closes the door to our relationship. God doesn't do that to us...for he is with us, and will strengthen and help us.

I should say, "Anna, I love you. And I know this makes you scared, But I am here with you. We'll walk through this together, with God as our guide. Because sometimes, mommy is scared of things too."

Lord, help me remember to love my children the same way you love me...passionately.

 

Counsel from the Cross: Connecting Broken People to the Love of Christ
Written by Elyse M. Fitzpatrick and Dennis E. Johnson

This entire book, in a nutshell, is about the Gospel. It’s a close look at the beautiful nature of the Cross, how we have forgotten that beauty and how taking our eyes off the Gospel  has led to a multitude of works based attempts to gain the love, peace and joy we desire.

            Forgetting Christ’s redemptive work on the cross and the Father’s love that placed him there, our sins that made it necessary for the action, and our lack of ability to repay that sin debt, leads to a self-centered, action based, feel good religion that doesn’t reflect Christ’s love, grace or forgiveness. Despite our best human efforts of changing ourselves we have no hope of accomplishing true heart change without knowing and seeing God’s glory.  

God's amazing, awesome, unlimited love continually forgives our lifetime of sins, not for anything we have done, but because he delights in his love for us. Christ's work on the cross finishes and demonstrates this unfailing love.

              In the call to love and counsel others we can see the need to present the gospel through all of God's word, not just the first time someone comes to the understanding of salvation, but determining to see the gospel over and over in all of God's word. This brings us back, time and again, to see our sins for what they are, to the saving knowledge of the Gospel and leads to heart change that is not about burdensome work to slave through, but lovingly responding to Christ's cross. Therefore obedience to God is a joyful overflow of gratitude.

             Did I enjoy this read? Oh yes!  What did I get out of this book? So much...I'm not sure where to begin. The joy of knowing my lifetime of sins are taken from me onto the cross because of God's love for me (not because I'm all that, but just because that is God's nature) is awesome. It's like the amazement of knowing a friend loves you despite your flaws, only a million times more, for what is human love when you can know GOD's love? Would I recommend this book? Most definitely. If I had a million dollars, I'd send it to everyone I know (but maybe I'll say that about all the books I've been assigned to read *wink*)!